topotales

I’m usually an avoider of confrontation.  Never afraid to speak my version of the truth, but usually under the right circumstances…like when nobody can beat me up.  That said, here’s some of the batshit crazy that I’ve been subjecting people to since being impregnated; it all happens in the hallowed halls of the university, since that’s where I spend all my time these days:

1. A guy was running full speed through the hallway.  He took the corner, where I was sitting on the floor, too fast and almost fell on me.  My first thought was “protect baby”, and I curled into a ball.  Then, my exact (yelled down a hallway full of students) words to him were: “Take it slow, or next time I’ll stick out my fucking foot”.
2. A woman interrupted my conversation with a fellow student to explain something I was half way done explaining.  She took out her pen, and started making notes on the girls homework.  I gave her the nastiest look I could muster and said “I KNOW you didn’t just write all over her homework in pen.  She has to turn that in.  Some manners would be appropriate, no?”.
3. I walked straight up to another pregnant woman in my Psychology class, whom I had never spoken to before, and said: “Are you seeing a midwife?  Oh, ’cause I’m pregnant too; I was just wondering”.
4. To a fellow student, who was trying to be helpful by suggesting some things that she ate while pregnant: like soup, soup, or… soup: “No, no moist things.  Please stop talking about moist things or I’ll throw up on you.”
5. To a sizeable crowd studying together: “My husband farted last night, and he thought it was real funny until I spent the next twenty minutes puking”.
6. I got insanely annoyed by a certain spammer, looked up the IP address and website owner, and sent them an email entitled “You Irritating Bastards”, that said: “Please stop spamming my blog, or I will begin to forward you every single piece of spam and shitware I get.”  Then, this morning, upon seeing two new pieces of spam from them, I did just that.

Okay, so number five and six could be pretty typical topo, pregnant or not pregnant.  But the rest are a bit over the line, especially the one where I just started blabbering to that poor pregnant woman like she should give a shit about me and my midwife.  SIGH.

1. I am taking an Anatomy exam on Thursday which will involve many half-dissected cats spread out with numbered pins stuck into their vessels and organs.  Did I mention yet that my debilitating morning sickness comes with a side order of meat disgust?  I hope there aren’t points-off for vomiting into body cavities.
2. Pnut and I have been discussing what we will call this baby if it is a boy.  I have an affinity for names embedded with X’s, Z’s and V’s, but since I couldn’t think of any actual names with these letters, I started replacing the letters in regular names and suggesting them.  Like Joaquin becomes Xoaquin.  Very cool, right?  Pnut doesn’t think so: “If you’re just going to start making this shit up, then I say we just call him Parrrrrakannastuuur.”  Which, now that I think about it, actually wouldn’t be too bad if you changed it to Xaravanaztor…
3. The number of Italians in Jersey is most apparent from behind the wheel of a car.  Things like stop signs, yield, lights, and one-way streets are just GUIDELINES.  Also, the grassy median of a highway is just an unlabeled, efficient road from the local highway to the express highway.
4. There may be aliens on the road here… and if there are, this guy is going to find them first!  Either that, or his car gets better programming than my house.

5.  Edited this post to add that on Sunday we went out to lunch at a local pub.  Pnut asked the waitress if he could please have his hamburger without the bunnies.  It took us all a few minutes to realize he meant without the bun.

Cheers to the classiest bar in town!

If I haven’t yet mentioned that I’m pregnant, now’s probably a good time to do that.  I haven’t been avoiding writing about it, I just haven’t had anything nice to say about it so far.  This go around, I’ve spent a lot of time (like a good two hours a day) with my face in the toilet while my ever-growing tits are probably hanging out somewhere in the next state (I don’t know for sure how far they extend, because I can’t see them with my face in the toilet - I just hope they’re in a wine bar, the lucky bastards).  Somebody asked me last week if I were “enjoying” the pregnancy so far.  Let me set you straight, people - only a total fucking masochistic lunatic would enjoy this (and I had my crazy FIXED last year, remember?).  At least the that’s my impression so far.

Remember how for the last pregnancy Pnut wanted to book us international flights so that I could enjoy the thrills of epidural-free childbirth in the third class section of an airplane while staring at a stranger in a hawaiian shirt?  Well, this time he wants baby to come into the world in a shower of pyrotechnics at a Rammstein concert.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m looking forward to seeing Rammstein live - especially since this is their first and only show in the US since 1991.  But I was thinking about seeing it from the comfort of a SEAT.  Here’s what Pnut had to say:

One of the classes I’m taking this semester as a prerequisite for nursing is Anatomy and Physiology II.  I was a terrible student my first time around in college.  Meaning, I studied Literature and Romance Languages.  For somebody who can whip out a decent paper in a few hours and pick up a language pretty easily, this means I spent a lot of time partying and socializing and experimenting with various drugs, and not a lot of time studying.

For my first A&P II exam earlier this week, on the other hand, I spent a LOT of time studying.  Like at least 15-20 hours per week, every week.  I made notecards.  I wrote outlines.  I joined study groups.  And I walked into the exam feeling like I KNEW my shit, and I was eager to tell somebody all the cool shit I knew.  And not just because I wanted an A, which I do, but because it’s really, really cool shit to know.  So cool that I put Paolo to sleep these days telling him exactly, vein to heart to artery, how a bit of blood gets from one place to another, and all the minute details of how it clots.  But when I walked out of that exam earlier this week… well, let’s just say that the medical field has a way of handing your ass to you on a platter just when you think your getting smart.  It is completely demoralizing.

As a Liberal Arts student, there are always books you haven’t read, better writers, people who speak more languages, and obviously there’s always someone smarter than you.  But you never feel like knowing the stuff they know would be … impossible.  Impossible, not because you can’t study and try to learn it, but because one little brain just could not possibly hold all of that information.  In science, and medicine in particular, it’s glaringly obvious to me that there’s a vast, vast sum of things that I may never know.  And unlike, say, learning Italian, I can’t just go pick up a book about how to insert IV’s, head for the nearest hospital and shoot in the dark until I get it right.

All I’m saying is that those preparing to move from a Liberal Arts education (even one of the finest in the country) to Medicine (even at the local community college) should be prepared to feel their IQ’s shrinking with the quickness.  And to having it suck eggs.